There are different pathways that can help grieving twins. Often, later in life, memories of the lost twin will be recovered in bits and pieces. Many twins try to process their thoughts, feelings and reactions with the help of a professional or by writing a journal or book, or constructing a work of art. It is hopefully much less painful when the lost twin is talked about and understood in perspective. I would urge you not to give up on re-telling your twin loss experience.